My Shaky Quaky Gramma

By Kelly Roberts
   I love my shaky quaky Gramma. I give her lots of hugs. My shaky quaky Gramma loves me. 
   We play basketball. But sometimes her legs get wobbly. So, she sits in a chair and yells, “Great shot!” when I make a basket.
   I love to play with my shaky quaky Gramma. But sometimes she is pretty shaky. One day we were building with blocks and she accidentally knocked down my building. I cried even though I know she didn’t do it on purpose. I think sometimes it makes her cry too.
  We read lots of books together. But sometimes I have to hold the book because she is too shaky. I turn the pages and she reads to me in funny voices.
   We play board games. But sometimes she accidentally hits the board and knocks all the pieces off onto the floor. We laugh as we put it back together.
   Sometimes she gets embarrassed when my friends are around. But I tell them not to be afraid of my shaky quaky Gramma and they understand.
   We play video car racing and she tries not to shake too much. But she usually comes in last. I love my shaky quaky Gramma when she doesn’t mind if I win.
   We take short walks by the river and throw rocks. She has to use her cane so I don’t run way ahead but stay close in case she falls.
   We like to paint pictures. But sometimes she makes blops on the page and makes them into dinosaurs. Some blops make good butterflies so we paint them together. I love my shaky quaky Gramma! 
   My Gramma told me she has essential tremor (ET). A tremor means something that shakes. She said something works different in her brain and she makes shaking movements she can’t control. My Gramma can’t help it when she shakes and quakes. It will never go away and she can’t give it to anyone like a cold.
   My mom and I make cookies. My shaky quaky Gramma used to make cookies too. But sometimes she would spill the flour or burn herself on the cookie pan. So now we play silly music and she sings along and dances with us in the kitchen. My shaky quaky Gramma is a good dancer. You should see us shake and quake while we bake!
   But sometimes it makes me extra sad she shakes and quakes. I just give her a bigger hug and tell her I love her. She hugs me back extra tight with her shaky quaky arms and tells me she loves me.
   Let’s go shake and quake Gramma!

Kelly is a student at the Institute for Children’s Literature. She wrote this because she thinks it’s important to teach children empathy and to help them learn to not be afraid of people who shake or are different. She said, “Stigma falls way the more we talk about this things.”

 

All of My Life I’ve Had People Ask Me Why I Shake

March is National Essential Tremor Awareness Month and throughout the month we will be shining a light on people who have essential tremor. Everyone has a story to tell. We hope that these stories will resonate with others, validating the everyday struggles people with ET feel physically and emotionally. As we shine a light on these individuals, we are shining a light on ET and raising awareness. Please share these stories with others.

By Rhonda,

I guess I’ve had essential tremor all my life. I remember as a child, my mom took me to the doctor and he would have me hold my arms straight out in front of me with my fingers spread apart. Then he would give me some type of injection. I never knew what it was and my mom never told me.

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I never knew I had essential tremor until I was in my late 50s. I went to a neurologist for something else and that’s what he told me. The minute he walked into the room and took a look at me shaking, he knew.

As I’ve gotten older it has worsened. I’ve tried to work at a coffee shop and couldn’t carry a cup of coffee to a customer. All of my life I’ve had people ask me why I shake. Am I scared? I’ve even had people  laugh at me because I was shaking. Some people have said I’m on drugs because I shake, or am an alcoholic. I’m so tired of the embarrassment. I just want this nightmare to end.

I tried a medication called propranolol. But I was on blood pressure medication and other medication at the time and went into the hospital because I was sleepy and tired. That told me I was being over medicated. So I got off everything but the blood pressure medicine.

If I’m ever blessed with something that helps me with my tremors, I will be sure to share it.